My mom once told me I was the “ajonjolí de todos los moles”, which for those who don’t speak Spanish, it means that I like being in everything (the finger in every pie). By that I mean getting involved in different activities or hobbies (let’s call these passion sidelines), which are pretty much the many fascinations that I get myself into.
Every person loves.
Life will bring people into your life, from friends to lovers, the people in your life are called into your existence for a reason. And it’s because of how you have been introduced to “normal” ways of being that we unconsciously measure each experience and person against that socially collective norm. But at the end of the day, all of that doesn’t really matter. And growing up means understanding just that.